Khawateen Khud Par Aitmad Karna Sekhain

khawateen ka daira amal un ke ghar ki chaar deewari tak hi mehdood nahi. aaj ki aurat aur bahar dono jagah kamyabi se agay barhti nazar aati hai. is ki wajah yeh hai ke aaj ki aurat khud aetmaad hai woh achi terhan janti hai ke ghar ho ya bahar agay bherne ke liye khud itmadi ki zaroorat hai .
aaj ki ghair yakeeni aur hungama bhari zindagi mein koi bhi ghair mutawaqqa sorat e haal se dochar hona par sakta hai .
zindagi dao paich se nabard aazma honay ke liye khud itmadi Muawin o madadgaar saabit hoti hai. ghar mein rehne wali aurton mein jab tak khud itmadi nahi ho gi tab tak is ghar ke afraad khaas kar bachay khud ko bhi ghair mehfooz mehsoos karen ge. kyunkay bachon ki tarbiyat mein aik pُraatmad maa ka bohat bara kirdaar hota hai is ke ilawa aaj kal gharelo zindagi ke sath khawateen mulazmat bhi kar rahi hain .

usay –apne afsaron ke sath pُraatmad andaaz mein kaam karna aur –apne shohar, bachon se mutaliq zimma dariyan khush usloobi se sar-anjaam dena padtee hain aur Khushgawar zindagi wohi guzaar rahi hain jo khud itmadi se apni salahiyaton ka istemaal kar rahi hain .
tareekh gawah rahi hai ke jis daur mein aurton ne mardon ke shana bshanh khud itmadi se kaam kya hai. wahan azm o hauslay aur taaqat o bahaduri ke na qabil faramosh karname injaam diye hain .

khawateen mein khud itmadi ke husool ka inhisaar un ke khandani pas manzar aur gharelo tarbiyat par bhi hota hai aisay mein taleem inhen zindagi mein paish anay walay masail ko hal karne ka saleeqa deti hai. aur halaat se muqaabla karne ki taaqat o bardasht barha deti hai lekin aaj bhi aisi bohat si khawateen hain khaas kar gharelo khawateen jo –apne faislon aur kamon mein hichkichahat ka shikaar ho jati hain is ke liye sab se zaroori hai ke woh khud –apne andar ka hosla barhayain .
is ke liye chand mufeed Hadayat mandarja zail hain .
apni shakhsiyat mein khud itmadi laane ke liye kisi Maroof bawaqar shakhsiyat ko apna namona tasleem karen aur is ki zindagi ke tajarbaat se sabaq sekhen. is se misbet tabdeeli aaye gi, khud itmadi aur himmat ka jazba parwan charrhey ga .
hamesha apni misbet soch rakhnay ki koshish karen. apni nakamiyoo ko nazar andaaz karkay kamyaab salahiyaton ko ujagar karen misbet soch se acha ban’nay ki lagan peda ho gi .

chehray par hamesha halki si muskaan rakh kar doosron se milein. apni burii aadat ko aahista aahista achi aadaat mein badalny ki koshish karen .
–apne halaat, khayalat, nazriaat par nazar rakhtay hue mustaqbil ke halaat ke liye khud ko tayyar rakhen yun aik din khud itmadi khud shakhsiyat ka hissa ban jaye gi .
kisi se baat karte hue is se nazar mila kar baat karen aur apni aawaz ko wazeh aur saaf alfaaz istemaal karen aur mahol ke mutabiq aawaz kam ya ziyada rakhen .

nafsiati masail bhi khud itmadi ki raah mein rukawat hain is liye khud ko aasabi tor par khaas tor par mazboot rakhen .
agar kahin koi ghalti ho jaye to is ka had se ziyada assar nah len. chunkay insaan khata ka patla hai chunancha khud par aetmaad rakhtay hue is ghalti se sekhen taakay agli dafaa is nakami ka saamna nah karna parre .
jo khawateen khud itmadi ki doulat se malaa maal hoti hain woh na sirf infiradi tor par apni zindagi mein balkay ijtimai tor par malik ki taraqqi mein bhi ahem sang mil saabit hoti hain .
koi bhi muashra is waqt tak misali nahi ban sakta jab tak wahan ki khawateen mein khud itmadi, khud kfalti aur khud inhasari ka ehsas nah ho. aaj ki khawateen nah sirf ghar ki zimma dariyan nibha rahi hain balkay bohat saari mukhtalif shobo mein bhi zimma dariyan nibha rahi hain. jis ke liye khud itmadi nihayat zaroori hai jo –apne aap par aur apni salahiyaton par yaqeen karkay koshish mehnat se haasil ki ja sakti hai kyunkay agar woh khud itmadi se apni salahiyaton ka muzahira karen gi to woh na sirf woh apni zindagi sanwaar len gi balkay dosray anay walon ke liye bhi Mashal raah saabit hon gi .

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